The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire (20th Anniversary Edition)

This book was an eye opener for me and will be for every man who reads it. I cannot recommend it enough. Men will see the female species in a whole new light after reading this book.

I bought this book for a friend . I have read this as well. It gives a man’s perspective on things in life.

This book has given me a different perspective on men who are truly in tune or want to be in tune with themselves. Having an understanding of women was very important in this book because it really shines light on how men and women in their true essence should co exist, if we all lived by these stoic methods there would be a drastic decline in marriage. Thank you.

This book should be a pre-req before any man enters a relationship. It will have you kicking yourself and asking why you hadn’t navigated your relationship utilizing these practices in the past. Buy the book, read it, and revisit it in the future. You will be happy you did.

I am giving this book 4 stars. For myself, it is a 5 star book, but for men seeking enlightenment on the subject of women and relationships, do not expect to find "answers" here. The answers are in the practice of applying the concepts described in this book, and the book does not describe in detail exactly how to do that, and rightfully so, because such techniques cannot be taught in the pages of a book, they must be experienced first hand.Deida's work resides entirely within the concepts of polarity and energetics. These are things that are currently unmeasurable by scientific instruments, just as DNA and subatomic particles were not so long ago. If you are looking for clear cut scientific "facts" on the subject of men and women, then look elsewhere because you won't find them here. Deida's work is based on truths that you won't find in science for years to come, but if you do not require "scientific facts", and you are simply wise enough to look and feel inside yourself for what is true and what is not, Deida speaks more truth on the subject of men and women, relationships, polarity and love than any sect of Tantra, Yoga or any individual doctor, sex therapist, or pick up artist out there.When Deida talks about the feminine and masculine, he is purely talking about energy, NOT the physical body of a man or woman. The masculine energy is defined by traits, the feminine energy is defined by traits, and the polarity between the two creates a balance in which the entire universe sympathetically operates.If the Big Bang is the purest form of the feminine essence, than gravity, dark matter, dark energy, and black holes would be the purest form of the masculine essence. This relationship, the ying and the yang, the duality of the universe, has been present from the beginning of time, and is found in everything, especially within ourselves and our partners. Deida's work is to define these polarities so a man and a woman can simply recognize them for what they are and work with them as they wish. His work does provide solutions to create a definitive balance between the two, and these solutions are simply tools to keep your relationship absolutely delicious.Being a man myself, I was initially resentful of the fact that in Deida's eyes, men are required to do all of the "work" in the relationship, while the woman expand into chaos. But when you truly understand the work and the teachings Deida is talking about, it becomes apparent that the woman's role in being absolutely vulnerable, carefree, and not defaulting to their own masculine mind due to a lack of trust in their man is equally as hard, if not harder than what the masculine is required to do.A woman can easily assume the role of the masculine energy, while the man assumes the feminine. It's actually very common in Western Culture today. As long as the polarity exists, the relationship will always be delicious, despite the ups and downs; it just requires hard work and daily practice from both partners to achieve it.My girlfriend and I have been practicing Deida's work for a year. It's insane. The ability to literally recreate the feeling of having taken ecstasy simply by engaging your partner is well worth the discipline, or maintain full body orgasms for 30 minutes, 4 times a day isn't bad either.And what does it all add up to? Well, nothing. It's simply all for the sake of creating art through love while we're here. It's to be of service to others, to give our greatest gift, to experience love on a level very few people in their entire life will ever experience, and to die. There are no secrets to life buried in this book. You practice and serve your relationship, simply to experience love like it has never been experienced before.This book is not a quick fix. You don't just read it and have all the answers. Honestly, if you read this book and try to apply some of the advice given, you will probably apply it incorrectly and it won't work because you will be missing the energetics involved. There is a teaching that needs to coincide with these words, that unless you seek those teachings and put them into practice, you won't find all that much value here besides an interesting read and possibly a doorway into a new kind of life style.This path is a hard one, but it is real and it is powerful. Women will find themselves insanely attracted to you and often times, might not entirely know why. It usually starts with men breathing properly, standing properly, and keeping their mouths shut.If you're willing to learn and actually apply the concepts in this book, and seek out the teachings that go with it, you will find fulfillment in your life and your relationship that transcends everything.Since getting involved in Deida's work, my girlfriend and I have dedicated every waking moment to it, and we have not looked back since.

As a woman who has read and explored David Deida's The Way of the Superior Man, I found it to be an incredibly eye-opening and insightful book. While it is primarily written for men, it offers invaluable lessons and a deeper understanding of masculine growth and development, making it a valuable read for women as well.Deida's exploration of masculine-feminine dynamics is particularly noteworthy. He sheds light on the unique challenges and struggles men face in their journey towards self-discovery and authenticity. By delving into these topics, he provides women with a profound understanding of the masculine experience, fostering empathy, compassion, and a deeper connection with the men in our lives.The book encourages women to embrace and honor the qualities of the masculine, recognizing its importance and inherent value in relationships and personal growth. It promotes an appreciation for the dynamic interplay between masculine and feminine energies, emphasizing the power of polarity and the potential for a harmonious and fulfilling partnership.Furthermore, The Way of the Superior Man explores the complexities of sexuality and intimacy from a masculine perspective. Deida offers a fresh and nuanced understanding of sexual dynamics, inviting women to explore their own desires and better understand the desires of their male partners. This insight can lead to a deeper level of connection and communication in relationships, fostering a more fulfilling and passionate connection.While it may be tempting to label The Way of the Superior Man as solely focused on men, it is crucial to recognize that the book aims to foster growth and understanding in both genders. By gaining insight into the challenges and aspirations of men, women can contribute to a more supportive and compassionate environment for personal growth and self-discovery.In summary, The Way of the Superior Man offers women a unique opportunity to gain profound insights into the masculine journey. It provides a deeper understanding of masculine-feminine dynamics, sexuality, and personal growth, fostering empathy, connection, and personal development. I highly recommend this book to any woman seeking to deepen her understanding of the men in her life and enhance her own personal growth journey.

Halfway through the book and already applying quite a bit in my marraige and at work.